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Judgment

            This is a word that has many different meanings in our world. not only in our time, but also in the past. what it means today is that it is used in all of the wrong ways. Judgment started in the court room during a trial while the lawyers try to defend their side of it. The judgment of the person can switch from one side to the other with nothing but one phrase or even one word. With that one phrase or word can change the future of the person on trial weather they go to jail or are free. Now being a very harsh way to judge someone, it is not the only one around. This is where the true problem comes into play, because evil people use it to their advantage to hurt people. But there are also good people in the world that use it for good to help people in a time of need. In the end of it all, unless it's in a courtroom, judgment needs to be left to the professionals

           

           There is good and bad judgment, but the one used most is bad. I think this is because people get like a high from telling other people how bad they look or telling them how they need to change their life. This is a subject...more like a problem, that is all over the world and needs to be stopped at once. This problem is many different affects on many different people, and some are life changing....literally. Some people can't handle all the judging they receive from horrible, and, sadly, end up giving up on life itself. The issue I find with people judging people is that no one gets to know the person they are judging them. Say someone judges a person on their clothes, and they say that they look ragatty and dirty. What that person may not know is that the person they are judging may not have the money for clean clothes or even a washer and dryer to clean them. if the judging person would take a minute to talk to them and learn a little about them, they will find something they didn't know and maybe try to help. In our generation, we have taken it into our own hands in what is fit to be judged and what is accepted in this world. Who are we to decide what people should and should not wear? We are only human. We are not God, and we need to move on from this stupidity and accept anyone and everyone for who they are.

          

            I could not tell you why people like to judge people. Maybe it's something to make themselves feel better, or maybe they just like judging people and making them feel terrible. I could never understand what gave people such an evil rush from making other people's lives miserable. How those people live with themselves after judging someone on something they may not fully understand, amazes me. Because how can u judge someone on how smart they are or what clothes they like to wear, then go home and act like nothing happen. while that judged person goes home and thinks and really takes in what the judgmental person said. It will always leave me to wonder how those mean, heartless and ruthless people are able to sleep at night and live with themselves if they find out the person they just judged ended their own life.

            

            I have met plenty of people in my life that feel worthless and like nothing because how people treat them for what they have or don't have. Even the smallest thing can make someone feel like they are not worth anything, and like they should stay to themselves. Sometimes when people judge others, it feels like you are alone in this world. Like no one is on your side and will ever accept you a Sometimes when people judge others, it feels like you are alone in this world. Like no one is on your side and will ever accept you as yourself. Sometimes when people judge others, it feels like you are alone in this world. Like no one is on your side and will ever accept you as yourself. That makes it harder to make friends, or even talk to people in general. Why would you want to talk or meet someone new if they are just going to judge you in the end.

           

             Even when it may seem like there is no hope and everything will be nothing but pain and suffering, there is a good side to judgment. This side is meant for the few good people, in this cold cruel world, to help people in need of some guidance with a problem they may have. Maybe you need help with an outfit or you just need help with a personal problem you may have, that's when you rely on your friends and family opinion, without judgment. There is always family and at least one friend you can trust to give you good judgment. sometimes family is not the best place to hear good judgment from, but everyone got at least one friend that will tell them straight up how it is. Everyone needs people to give them good judgment or advice, better yet everyone deserves those kind of people in their lives.

           

             In the end of the day though, all that matters is what you think about yourself. No one can make you feel bad about yourself except you. Your opinion is the only one that matters. when you got great friends and family that will have your back, there is no reason for you to let other people judge you, because you should know who you are and change for no one. When you become happy with yourself, you become truly happy. Judgment is a very strong word, and can be used in all the wrong ways. Then what might have been a simple joke can end up being a terrible action. So next time you think about judging someone, get to know them a little bit, because you may be surprised what you learn about them.